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About This Game

WHAT IS GETTING DATES IRL?

Getting Dates IRL is a first-person, extraction-style social game set in a living city.

You explore the streets, approach strangers, and choose how to talk to them.
Every interaction is a risk. Every decision has consequences.

Your goal is simple:
get phone numbers — and make it home before your confidence hits zero.

CORE GAMEPLAY

• Explore a city full of NPCs
  Each character has their own personality, tolerance, and openness.

• Dialogue-based risk & reward
  Choose your approach:

  • Play it safe — higher success, slower progress

  • Go bold — faster, riskier, more punishing

• Phone numbers are loot
  Every successful interaction is a reward you can extract — or lose.

• Confidence is your health bar
  Rejection hurts. Push too far, and you might not make it home.

• Time is a resource
  The longer you stay out, the more you risk.
  Extract early — or gamble for more.

EXTRACTION OR FAILURE

Make it back in time to secure your gains.
Fail… and the night ends differently.

Lose all confidence, and you pass out — ending the run.

AFTER THE DATE: NIGHTMARE MODE

Finish the final date to unlock a secret endgame mode.

You wake up at night.
The city is empty.
And then you hear them.

A zombie shooter mode, unlocked as a reward for completing the game.

Same city.
Different rules.
Pure survival.

FEATURES

• Extraction-style gameplay with a social twist

• Stat-based dialogue outcomes

• Multiple NPC archetypes with dynamic difficulty

• Confidence-driven progression and failure

• Unlockable zombie survival endgame

• Designed for replayability and experimentation

WHY THIS GAME?

Because dating already feels like a roguelike.
This one just makes the rules visible.

AI Generated Content Disclosure

The developers describe how their game uses AI Generated Content like this:

This game uses generative AI tools during development to assist with the creation of written content, including dialogue drafts, descriptions, and promotional text.

All AI-assisted content has been reviewed, edited, and curated by the developer.

No AI-generated content is created dynamically during gameplay, and no player data is used or processed by AI systems.

Mature Content Description

The developers describe the content like this:

Getting Dates IRL contains adult themes presented in a humorous and satirical tone.

The game focuses on social interaction, rejection, and dating-related situations, including dialogue with sexual innuendo and suggestive humor, but no explicit sexual content. There is no nudity, no sexual acts, and no pornographic material.

The game includes cartoon-style fantasy violence in an optional, unlockable game mode featuring zombies. This mode does not depict realistic violence, gore, or dismemberment.

Players may experience themes of rejection, social failure, and confidence loss, which are represented mechanically (confidence meter) and narratively, but there is no depiction of self-harm, suicide, sexual violence, or non-consensual sexual activity.

Alcohol or drugs are not depicted or encouraged, and there is no hate speech or targeting of real-world protected groups.